Omphalos wrote:I met my bride on the internet too. Ten years and two kids later and we still have not killed each other yet.
that's reassuring
Any tips ?
I've got a tip that's served me well over my 7 years of marriage: Tell her what she wants to hear and then do what you want to do anyway. Most likely she'll never notice.
Until I learned that about 5 years ago things were a little rough. I even went as far to tell her that's what I was doing and she admitted that it was true.
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inhuien wrote:Another thing, don't let lifes difficulties make you forget why you got married in the first place, remember the Love.
Amen to that!!!!!
And you both need to make sure you're hearing what the other person is saying. If there is ANY doubt -- ASK.
As much as I hate to admit it....it's true that men can say one thing and women can hear something totally different. Most females not only listen to the words but the TONE in which the words are spoken. That is where the misunderstandings occur. And this goes for any relationship, not just marriage.
What fear is there in the night?
Nothing, but that which is in our own imaginations.
Robspierre wrote:Remember to have at minimum, two flasks on your person filled with GOOD single malt scotch
Good advice. I can't believe how nervous I got about 10 minutes before my cue. Thankfully, my best man and I both had flasks (but bourbon, not scotch), and one pretty big hit got my head screwed on straight again.
Still have the flask, too ...
Listen to the man, Lotek; he doesn't mess around with his liquor.
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Robspierre wrote:Remember to have at minimum, two flasks on your person filled with GOOD single malt scotch
Good advice. I can't believe how nervous I got about 10 minutes before my cue. Thankfully, my best man and I both had flasks (but bourbon, not scotch), and one pretty big hit got my head screwed on straight again.
Still have the flask, too ...
Listen to the man, Lotek; he doesn't mess around with his liquor.
I was in a wedding where we all had flasks. I'm a little surprised the bride didn't get pissy about it.
"If he was here to discuss Dune, he sure as hell picked a dumb way to do it." -Omphalos
Happy Memorial Day everyone! -James C. Harwood
"Three of my videos have over 100 views."
"Over 500 views for my 'Open Question' video." -Nebiros
Robspierre wrote:My youngest brother is getting married in July and I've already talked with his fiance about what to expect from our side of the family at a wedding
Rob
Men in dresses dancing?
DUNE, as interpreted by a blue man with a green tushie
Robspierre wrote:Remember to have at minimum, two flasks on your person filled with GOOD single malt scotch
Good advice. I can't believe how nervous I got about 10 minutes before my cue. Thankfully, my best man and I both had flasks (but bourbon, not scotch), and one pretty big hit got my head screwed on straight again.
Still have the flask, too ...
Listen to the man, Lotek; he doesn't mess around with his liquor.
I was in a wedding where we all had flasks. I'm a little surprised the bride didn't get pissy about it.
She didn't need to as you all were getting pissed
But the flasks are a good idea, I can picture that vid of the groom passing out before saying his piece and I'd fucking hate to do that lol
Booze and easy scrotal access. This is a marriage born in heaven already! Where's the party going to be Lotek? And have you told her about us, your twisted e-family yet?
then you & I either have to fight it out or drag-race worms to the palmeries & back ...
and since you're a motherfucking bear, and my insurance won't cover another worm-riding
related back injury, I'll just have to bow out gracefully and get in line ...
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